Teach Them to Read and Let Them Go!

“All the World’s a stage,” said Shakespeare’s college student Jacques de Boys in As You Like It, “and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages…”

For many of us, our parts in life are framed by well-timed expectation. We think we know how a life story is supposed to go (even if we don’t frame it as cynically as Jaques!), and the genre is often of the ages-and-stages variety: certain life tasks are checked off the list at certain ages, with “preschoolers,” grade-school kids,” “Jr. High,” “High School,” and “College Kids” each having their expected achievements and conventional idiosyncrasies. Having conventional life stages mapped out is comforting–we know what we are supposed do and when; but what if life doesn’t always fit in a box? Or what if, as recent developmental research implies, there is no box?
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August, 1945

Sixty-three years ago this week, the bombs dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. The enormity of the event, the inhuman scale of both this power and its consequences, is nearly impossible to communicate. How can one understand the power of a thousand suns unleashed upon whole cities? It became one of the defining stories for generations in every nation, the stuff of myth and legend come to trouble our real urban lives. When the bombs were dropped, at the end of World War II, my mother was twelve years old; when I was twelve, it was common knowledge among my Chicago peers that were were targeted to go out in a mushroom cloud, courtesy of the Soviet Union. My high school girlfriend had nightmares of invading armies, though she personally had never experienced any sort of war. (She had to walk out on the post-nuke invasion scenes of Red Dawn, though somehow War Games was fun.) The stories and imagery of WW II have been invoked and remixed and spun to death, and still they are important. How do we put all these pieces together, and how can we get the story straight?

So far, we’ve introduced WWII to our children with stories found here and there: The Sound of Music, from their mother’s love of musicals, Anne of Green Gables, from her love of strong redheads, Twenty and Ten from the fantastic Sonlight Curriculum, Art Spiegelman’s graphic novel of the Holocaust, Maus: A Survivors Tale when our son found it in our church library, Faithful Elephants: A True Story of Animals, People, and War which we found at Butterfly Books, and Baseball Saved Us from the Rainbow Bookstore Cooperative.

This is not yet a curriculum, just a collection of stories. But they paint a landscape of history, stories to be remembered, referred to, examined, and criticized; part of the tapestry of their lives. And when the time for a more formal curriculum comes, it will have a foundation to stand on.

Before we’re done, I expect to share with them the documentary, Trinity and Beyond, Keiji Nakazawa’s harrowing answer to Spiegelman, Barefoot Gen, and Hersey’s classic Hiroshima, along with other things we find or that you, dear reader, suggest.

But first, I think we’ll start here, with a new book, first of a series, from Ellen Klages:

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The Green Glass Sea
by Ellen Klages
Puffin 2008-05-01
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starGood read for most thinking persons
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The Friendship of Girls, the Fate of the World

Two girls sort out their places in the world as they follow their families to live in a town that doesn’t officially exist: Los Alamos, California, in the days leading up to Trinity, the first ever test of a nuclear weapon, on July 16, 1945. A deep story of friendship, loss, and finding your home, in a world of awesome forces.

Today they had chosen to sit against the west wall of the commissary for their picnic lunch. It offered a little bit of shade, they could look out at the Pond, and it was three minutes from Papa’s office, which meant they could spend almost the whole hour reading together.

“Dews?” Papa said a few minutes later. “Remember the other night when we were talking about how much math and music are related?”

Dewey nodded.

“Well, there was a quote I couldn’t quite recall, and I just found it. Listen.” He began to read, very slowly. ” `Music is the hidden arithmetic of the soul, which does not know that it deals with numbers. Music is the pleasure the human mind experiences from counting without being aware that it is counting.’ That’s exactly what I was talking about.”

“Who said it?” Dewey asked.

Read the full excerpt at the author’s site, EllenKlages.com.

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Teach Your Children Well

Crunchy Con Rod Dreher takes up the challenge of The American Scene’s Noah Millman in explaining The Iraq War for Kids:

How, in narrative terms, would you explain the Iraq war? On the assumption that you didn’t want to say either that, “Iraq is only one front in World War IV, the global struggle against Islamofascism” or “we went to war so the President could get back at the guy who tried to kill his dad, make money for his buddies in the oil business, and protect Israel.”

Suggestions?

One of the things that I have enjoyed about raising and teaching my own kids is the way it has challenged me to explain complex, controversial things to them with integrity, i.e., as wisely and well to them as I can, avoiding propaganda and giving due respect for the different points of view that are out there. I often end up understanding my own opinions better because I want to have respectable response for them.

But can I put this one in the back of the line for a few weeks, while we tackle nuclear weapons, evolution, and sex ed?

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Camp Is Where the Heart Is

Our eldest boys have just returned from camp. They’ve been away (excepting Saturday nights) for two and a half weeks, first at the Ed Bryant Scout Reservation (thanks, Troop 333!), then at The Island at Covenant Point (thanks, Grandma Barbara!), and last at Camp Fire (thanks, Michelle!) at Paradise Park.

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Roger Bennet and Jules Shell write in Camp Camp: Where Fantasy Island Meets Lord Of The Flies:

The more interviews we held, the more we were staggered by the sheer breadth of impact the institution of camp has had on our generation. We began to understand that every camp is a unique compressed world with its own rhythm and traditions. Camp is also enhanced with more ritual than your average Shriner Temple. The variations between these worlds were vast, effectively making the choice of camp a life-changing decision… The critical element that set summer camp apart from high school and college, and that shaped so many lives, is that it was expressly designed to make sure that everyone became part of a community, at a time when traditional pillars of community—clubs, places of worship, and even bowling leagues—were all in sharp decline.

(An interview with Bennet is here: NPR: Are you ready for summer? Camp, that is.)

Summer camp is not really about recreation, but about learning the practices of the group–not affluenza, but apprenticeship. For me, Covenant Point was where I learned to love creation and its Lord, and to see his character and presence in the counselors & campers there. So I asked our boys, “At each of these camps, what did you learn? What did you practice?”
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There’s Something Happening Here…

With apologies to Buffalo Springfield:

There’s something happening here
What it is ain’t exactly clear
There’s a man with a gun book over there
Telling me I got to beware…

In the current issue of The Atlantic, Nicholas Carr writes in Is Google Making Us Stupid?

Over the past few years I’ve had an uncomfortable sense that someone, or something, has been tinkering with my brain, remapping the neural circuitry, reprogramming the memory. My mind isn’t going—so far as I can tell—but it’s changing. I’m not thinking the way I used to think. I can feel it most strongly when I’m reading. Immersing myself in a book or a lengthy article used to be easy… Now my concentration often starts to drift after two or three pages. I get fidgety, lose the thread, begin looking for something else to do. I feel as if I’m always dragging my wayward brain back to the text. The deep reading that used to come naturally has become a struggle.

I think I know what’s going on. For more than a decade now, I’ve been spending a lot of time online…

His article (a beautiful piece of writing, by the way) has set off a huge, lengthy debate on the web (of course), which you should dip into (or settle down with, as is your wont) at the Brittanica Blog’s forum on Your Brain Online.

But just so you know what you’ll be getting into, here is how one participant in this conversation, Kevin Kelly, began his post on the Fate of the Book:

Attention Conservation Notice: This is a long stream in an unordered distributed debate. It may not make much sense unless you’ve read the discussion that is taking place on various websites indicated in the following paragraphs. There are many strands in the conversation. The one I am following here is about whether books will be dethroned from their centrality in culture.

You’ve been warned. Now go forth and read.

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Civility on the Web (or, If you talk, be polite)

The New York Times explores calls for a Code of Conduct (like this from Jimmy Wales, or this from Tim O’Riley) on the web, as well as the motivations and secret lives of the Trolls Among Us; and Clay Shirky, author of Here Comes Everybody, explains why A Group Is Its Own Worst Enemy.

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Male and Female: Equal After All

Cecilia Ford’s investigations into the power of conversation for her new book, Women Speaking Up: Getting and Using Turns in Workplace Meetings, are reviewed here: Researcher finds that women are speaking up; and Janet Hyde, author of Half the Human Experience, has published research that finds no gender differences in math performance.

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